The Secret Spice to Great Parenting: KFC

On a chilly and damp evening, Saint Kentigern Preschool welcomed parents to an evening that left attendees inspired and armed with practical strategies for transformative parenting. The event featured the charismatic and down-to-earth Sheridan Eketone, who captivated the audience comprising parents from the Preschool, Junior School, and Middle School, as well as dedicated teachers.

The presentation, aptly titled “Kind. Firm. Calm,” did not reveal the eleven secret herbs and spices of the Colonel’s Fried Chicken. However, the audience did receive a simple yet powerful approach for parents to keep at the forefront of their minds when navigating the ever-changing waters of parenting.

To kick off the evening, Sheridan engaged the audience with an intriguing slide listing various parenting styles. Attendees were prompted to identify their type, be it the “Sergeant-major” (strict and authoritative), “Jelly Fish” (warm and loving but inconsistent), “Unplugged” (constantly distracted by devices), “Lawnmower” (overly involved in clearing obstacles for their child), or the “Backbone Parent Coach” (providing guidance and support).

After identifying their strengths and weaknesses depending on their parenting style, Sheridan emphasised that the secret to great parenting lies in the KFC principle: Kindness, Firmness, and Calm. Kindness involves understanding our children, encompassing how we look, sound, and choose words. In her own words, she highlighted the quote, “It is better to be kind than it is to be right.”

Firmness entails setting clear boundaries, following through on commitments, and maintaining consistency. Children are known to experience intense emotions, and parents must strike a balance between empathy and maintaining their coping mechanisms.

Calmness, though not always easy to achieve, fosters safety and security. Sheridan encouraged parents to remain composed, even in challenging situations, likening it to paddling calmly despite navigating rough waters. The ripple effect of calmness can permeate the entire family environment.

The evening was a delightful blend of wisdom and humour, thanks to Sheridan’s approachable and relatable style. Attendees left with newfound confidence, armed with practical insights to enrich their parenting journeys. With Sheridan’s guidance, parents were empowered to embrace the KFC approach and become the parents they aspire to be – kind, firm, and calm.